"The kind of thinking that will solve the world's problems will be of a different order to the kind of thinking that created them in the first place."
- Albert EinsteinThanks to a good friend, Sherry and I closed out yesterday by watching an old, old-school movie called "An Affair To Remember." It was a long movie, a definite chick flick, was over a little after eleven... but I think I scored some points.
I was really tired so I went quickly to bed.
About 2:30 in the morning I was frustratingly awakened to some banging dishes and cupboards. What in the known world was going on? I shuffled my sorry, sleepy self into the kitchen only to find my two teenagers doing... something. They should have been doing nothing, and I irritatedly suggested their SOME thing turn into NO thing quickly. With that, I made my dad-like anger officially known (as much as any dad can in his underwear), and went back to bed. Oh, I closed my bedroom door with a bit of volume too; something my wife and smaller kids had to appreciate.
I began to stir again at about six a.m. this morning. It was time to get up, and I began thinking and plotting how I would go into my teens room and obnoxiously ask them if they wanted to get up with me. This was nothing short of a horrid display of maturity and getting even. I didn't actually do the early-morning rail and wail, but it sure felt like I should have... just to accentuate some point that I thought I should make.
After a few morning hours of reading on the beach, I got a phone call: "Breakfast is ready! Dad, come back up to the room to eat." Breakfast? Nobody has fixed me breakfast since last Father's Day. I was curious and hungry enough to go see this anomaly seemingly unfolding before my inquisitive eyes.
Sure enough... breakfast was being served. The warm, comforting smell of cinnamon sticky buns filled the morning, coastal air. Apparently Brooklynn and Lauren had been whipping up a batch of sticky buns at 2:30 in the blessed morning so Sherry and I could enjoy a nice little study break surprise breakfast. Hmmm... didn't see that comin'.
I'm so very glad I didn't wake my teenagers up at six a.m.
I am glad I hugged Brooklynn, and profusely thanked and kissed her for the wonderful sticky buns. I am glad I went into Lauren's room to hold her, kiss her face, and tell her thanks for the incredible sticky buns (she had slipped back into bed after her long night). I hope they'll remember and continue to be shaped by my affection and appreciation. I sure won't forget their sticky buns.
I certainly don't always get it right, but this time I did. Barely. This embracing was the right thing to do. It was redeeming and redirecting life. It was right living which enabled the environment of right thinking. It was living out a Hebrew active faith of "emunah" that embraced life first and beyond thinking, propositions, or Greek "pistis" faith --- one that focuses merely and mostly on the intellect. (When Paul said, "I have kept the faith" in II Tim. 4:7... was that an intellectual or actional faith... a thinking or acting faith... living or theological...pistis or emunah?)
Late this afternoon, I finished my second study break book ("The Shape Of Things To Come"). I've been exposed to some really good, challenging, Biblical thinking of where God seems to be moving His church. There's been some great ideas to really sort through... especially the APEPT leadership concept stemming from Ephesians 4. There are some revolutionary ideas to sort through in seeing what God is doing and asking if I can jump in.
However, with that said, I've been a bit frustrated by a few gross generalizations about how established western churches are and have been wrong, must die, and make way for newer, emerging, missional churches. I think we have to be very careful here. This is territory that can be difficult, at best, to navigate. Is the American, Western church off track? Yes. Is there a need for revolution? Yes. To paraphrase Mr. Einstein: "The kind of thinking that will solve the Church's problems will be of a different order to the kind of thinking that created them in the first place."
But... has God been totally devoid in our churches until now and the advent of missional, relational, incarnational thinking? No. Is it possible that the attractional, propositional, colonizing churches have actually been evolving/learning about mission, relationships, and Jesus invading culture in preparation for a revolution? Yes. Can an existing church change in revolutionary ways? Maybe. Can an attractional, propositional, colonizing church become a missional, relational, incarnational church? Yes, but perhaps only a few might be able to see their way through such a revolution.
I believe it is possible for a once-revolutionary, attractional, propositional, colonizing church to still be revolutionary. Through Bible teaching, prayer, Holy Spirit empowerment, experiments, ever-learning leadership, and a culture embracing change (just a few minor things), existing churches DO have the ability to begin turning the ship towards the ocean of missional, relational, and incarnational waters. I don't think this is an easy hypothesis, but neither is planting a church --- of any kind.
Is it possible that what some count as religious, irritating, banging dishes and cupboards, may end up being a wonderfully recreated and revolutionary surprise by morning? The wrong thing to do is rail and wail on the Church and make our expert-like anger known. The right thing to do is love, hug, and kiss the bride of Christ today and anticipate how God will shape her tomorrow.